So here's hoping.
Below is a list of emails and reports, starting a few days after collection.
Email to dealer:
In standard mode there's a hesitancy from the off and another vacuum at around 25mph- 30mph. At one point I gently pushed the accelerator an extra half inch and it went into kick down? In Sport mode it's responsive and seamless but switching back to normal accentuates the problem.
Email to dealer having taken to local dealership:
I went on a test drive with one of their technicians who agreed that the gearing was out of sync due he believed to the car having being driven very lightly and the management unit memorising and delivering the gear changes accordingly. His recommendation was that the settings be changed and we are booked in for this to be done next Wednesday afternoon.
We were then told that no software updates were needed, that the gearboxes performance would adjust itself to the style of driving after a few hundred miles. It didn't. A couple of thousand miles more, still no change and arguably worse.
We then took her to an independent mechanic - a relative who has 60 years in the trade, including recent experience working on VW's and historical knowledge of tuning and performance. he reset the software to factory settings and a slight but not conclusive improvement followed.
My daughter gave up driving 18 months ago.
Footnote: By sheer fluke I met a guy who worked for the original seller, the VW main dealer, for a number of years who informed me that the DSG gearbox is the best thing since sliced bread in a big car but that it wasn't suitable for smaller one's. He hesitated slightly when told it was a 1.4L and not a 1.0 or similar but still insisted it's a manufacturing/design issue.
Any advice welcome?