I will order the cheap 3C8 tomorrow. Or might be even go pick it up, it's just 200km drive. I might refurbish it properly while I wait for the crimp terminals (000979009E) to arrive
For left bluetooth audio channel I will also need to add couple wires, so those will come in handy.
Iichel hope you can join in with sharing my joy once the retrofit is completed, not sure if I can give back anything else. At least not any more car knowledge than what you have

