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I were in your situation:
Lower it first. Suspension kits are readily available nowadays. There's no point in colour coding the black trim, it looks pretty good anyway, and adds a nice contrast.
Lose the Lexus lights. They're tacky and over-done in my opinion. Stick the originals back on, and flog the Lexus lights on ebay. Someone will buy them.
This is just my opinion however, it's your car, and you should do what you want to do, and you shouldn't feel obliged to please everyone on the forum, be a bit controversial.
Of course, always declare your mods with your insurance company
